Hey guys. Is a woman driving you crazy? We at MeetYourSweet hear these questions from men all the time:
‘Why is it that women are so cryptic? How are you supposed to know how to act when she is always giving you mixed signals?’
Luckily, we can help.
There are ways which have proven to be effective in breaking down a woman’s defenses, and finding out what she’s really thinking and feeling – about you.
Read below to learn four secrets that will help you to become a master of reading women, so you can know when you are being given the green light.
1. Interpret your woman… by being direct
It seems obvious, but it is something we all often struggle to do: ask outright what our loved one is thinking. This is especially true when we are dating and do not have the security of a relationship to give us courage.
However, a straight up question usually gets a straight up answer, and this can be the most effective way of finding out how a woman is feeling.
The best way to go about this is to be open and honest able how YOU feel, before asking her. This will increase the likelihood that she will also be direct and honest.
For example,
“Natalie, I really like you. I always enjoy spending time with you and would like us to be something more. How do you feel about me?”
Even if it turns out that she does not feel about you the same way, she will really appreciate and respect you for being honest and direct with her. At least then you will know and can stop the agonizing of wondering.
2. Interpret your woman… through her body language
Even though women sometimes seem to give double meanings with their words, they cannot hide their physical responses! Body language can be a really useful indicator of how a woman is feeling.
Here are some cues to look out for when you are with your lady.
Body position:
Look at where her body is facing. If it if angled towards you, this is a sign she is interested in you and what you are saying. If her body is angled away, this is a sign she is not. Is she leaning forward or pulling back?
Feet:
Feet give a lot away. Look for whether her toes are pointed towards you or away.
Arms and Legs:
Crossed arms and legs can indicate being uncomfortable in a situation. However, if legs are still pointing towards you then this is a good sign.
Face:
Does her face and mouth seem natural or tense around you? Does she smile and laugh easily? Play close attention to the eyes – when the smile is genuine the corners of her eyes will crinkle. This is an involuntary response!
Distance:
Does your lady tend to stand or sit quite close to you when you are together? Or keep her distance? Does she mimic you or back away when you move closer? The less distance between you, the more it suggests that she is attracted to you.
Touch:
Are there times when you seem to touch by accident? Does she find excuses to touch you, such as flicking something off your shirt or pushing your arm?
Although body language may not spell out exactly how your woman is feeling, it should give a pretty clear indication of whether she is comfortable being around you and having you in her personal space.
3. Interpret your woman… through your together time
When two people are in love, they will do anything to be around each other.
For example, I once had a friend called Lucy who lived out of town and as a result I only saw her occasionally at a big social event. Then one night, she met a friend of my partners at a dinner party and fell instantly head over heels.
All of a sudden Lucy was asking to spend time with me every weekend and was traveling all over town to be involved in what my partner and I were doing. Needless to say, this was especially when my partners friend was around.
The two soon hit it off and became comfortable enough to go and do their own thing as a couple. Not long after Lucy moved into town to be closer to her man. Moral of the story: if a woman likes you, she will jump over hurdles to be around you.
So have a think about the times that you have and could have been together. Does she go out of her way to be around you? Does she go to all of the events she knows you’ll be at? Does she always pay attention to you in social situations? Does she keep in regular contact?
If the answer to all of these is yes, then this is a good indication that your lady is interested.
4. Interpret your woman… through your conversation
When we love someone, we want to know all about them. We could spend hours finding out ever little detail of their lives.
Take someone that you’re not interested in, however, and after 10 minutes of hearing all about their childhood you’re most likely to want to make an excuse to leave the room.
So take note of how conversations with your woman have gone. Did she seem interested? Did she ask questions and keep the conversation going? Did she laugh at your jokes?
These are all good indications that she is enjoying your company and is interested in what you have to say.
So don’t give up on trying to figure out your lady – the clues ARE all there, you now just need to go ahead and solve them.
And if you’re looking for more ways to increase your conversation skills with women and find out what they really want from a man to build attraction, I urge you to check out Conversation Chemistry
Good luck guys! Please feel free to share your feedback and own experiences in the comments section below.