By Brad Browning
From The Ex Factor Guide
If you can’t tell for sure if you’re over analyzing your ex’s behavior, then check this out…
The Ex Factor Guide
What NOT to Do When Meeting Your Ex
So your period of no contact is almost up and you’re getting ready to meet with your ex you want to show him or her that you’re a changed person in hopes of resparking the romance that you two once had.
But maybe you’re worried that you might do or say something that’s wrong and completely blow your shot…
Well, you’re in luck because in this video below, I’m going to teach you exactly what NOT to do when you’re meeting up with your ex.
Now if you haven’t watched any of my other videos on how to get your ex back then that I have to tell you a few things that you need to know before you ever meet up with your ex.
Depending on how the relationship ended, you need to engage in a period of roughly 30 days of zero contact with your ex.
Now, I’m not going to go into detail as to why you need to do this, but you do need to be aware of this strategy before you move forward…
And you also need to make sure that you haven’t done any begging or pleading with your ex prior to your meet up.
If you’re still in an extremely emotional state, and you’re not gonna be able to hold it together when you do meet with your ex, then it’s probably best to steer clear from seeing her for now.
And finally, if you want to get your ex back, then you need to make sure that you know the fundamental laws of attraction, and the real reason why your relationship ended.
So, the first thing that you shouldn’t be doing when meeting up with your ex is calling the rendezvous a date.
If you call your casual coffee meet-up a date then you’re probably gonna send your ex running because she might think that you want to get together for romantic reasons…
So you need to make sure that your ex only thinks of your meetup as just a friendly get-together, and that’s it!
If your ex feels as if you’re trying to get back together with them, and you’re trying to arrange it for romantic reasons, they’re going to mentally cock-block, and she may even find reasons to not see you.
So to prevent that from happening, just make sure that you have a very good reason for meeting up with your ex.
Don’t say that you want to meet up just to say hi or because you miss her, only say that you want to meet up because you know you have some important questions to ask.
For example, let’s say you want to take up playing the piano and your ex was an extremely talented musician, tell your ex that you wanna meet up for coffee just so that you can ask a few questions about music and playing the piano.
That way, your ex is not going to feel threatened or intimidated by the coffee date and they’re going to be a lot more relaxed and receptive to your efforts to arrange it.
And whatever you do, just make sure that you do have a lot of important questions about playing the piano or whatever the excuse is for your meet up, when you meet with your ex.
The second thing you don’t want to do during the meet up is to bring up your old relationship with your ex.
Remember, your ex is there because he or she thinks that you want to get together as friends and that’s it, nothing more.
So, if you suddenly bring up the topic of your breakup or issues that plagued your relationship, you’ll put your ex on the spot, and you’ll blow your chances of meeting up with your ex again any time in the near future.
Remember, the key to winning your ex back is attraction.
You need to naturally and organically make your ex miss you and chase after you. You won’t be able to do that by just simply talking through your relationship problems.
In short, you really just need to make your ex feel good when they’re around you. Only then will she feel compelled to take you back and to pursue building a stronger relationship.
The third thing that you don’t want to do during your meet up is to beg and plead.
Any sort of erratic or dramatic behavior is going to make your ex run for the hills.
And as I talked about in my Ex Factor program, begging and pleading is a massive attraction destroyer.
I mean put yourself in the position of your ex, do you think that you’d feel attraction for a person that’s literally begging on their hands and knees for you?
It’s probably not right if you’d feel pity for her…
Remember, the most attractive people in the world are confident individuals. They don’t give a damn what other people think of them, and this is exactly the kind of mindset that you need to have before you go into any meetup with your ex.
And the fourth thing that you want to avoid doing is to complain.
If you’re complaining about your life or how lonely you are, how depressed you’re feeling, you’re only going to just drive your ex further and further away from you. This is not attractive behavior, right?
In order for you to make yourself as attractive as possible to your ex, you need to show off the fact that you’re doing well.
That means you know your work, school, friends, dating… yes, dating are all going well… That those parts of your life are doing awesome since the break-up.
And by showing off how amazing your life spin, you’re subtly conveying to your ex that they missed out by breaking up with you, and they’re going to start wondering why on earth they were stupid enough to let you go in the first place.
The fifth thing that you should never do during any meet up with your ex is to ask them about their dating life because you really you need to come across to him or her as though you don’t really care at all about who they’re dating or what’s going on in their love life.
Because if you come across as you know, curious or invasive about who they’re dating, it’s gonna seem like you’re worried that she’s gonna find somebody new or they’re gonna move on without you…
And I know that you actually do care, but for now, you really don’t want to show that to your ex.
Your only goal for this short meet up is to let your ex know that you’re not only doing alright but that you’re actually flourishing since the break-up, right?
Well, that just about does it for this video guys, if you’re interested in learning some more covert psychological strategies that are going to help get your ex back into your arms then check this out…
Video: Secrets To Getting Your Ex Back
