By Alex Carter
Author of Make Him Desire You
There is one simple trick that can make any man beg for your attention. Check out the video below to learn more…
How To Make Him Desire You
2 Weird Ways To Make Him Feel Impulsive Love For You
A man in love isn’t going to make excuses about not being around when you need him.
He won’t give you “mixed signals” about his true feelings for you.
When he’s into you, he’s not going to have any problems committing himself to you 100%.
See, the truth is that there is no such thing as “commitment phobia” with men.
A guy has no problem making room in his life for a serious, committed relationship.
However, he knows in the back of his mind that this is a HUGE step. After he makes that leap of faith, his life will never be the same…
So, men aren’t scared of commitment – they’re just very careful with WHO they commit to.
But how do you make him see you as The One?
Here are two crucial steps to guide his mind and heart in the right direction:
Step 1 – Become emotionally in-tune with him.
If you ever want a man to feel a deep intense, almost addictive love for you, then you need to become emotionally in-tune with him.
What do I mean when I say emotionally in-tune?
I basically mean that you have to connect with the emotional part of his mind rather than the logical
part.
Most women don’t get this; in fact, most women dress sexy, cook great meals and try to logically
convince a man to like them. But that doesn’t work because they’re missing the most important element
of the puzzle. That element is “EMOTION”.
Have you ever seen a woman who can make any guy go absolutely crazy for her and do the dumbest and
sometimes even embarrassing things to please her?
And at the same time have you ever seen a woman who does everything right, yet she is never able
to get the love or attention she desperately desires from her man?
What is the difference between the two?
The woman in my first example understands the critical concept of becoming emotionally in-tune
with a man and as a result, she is able to make a man literally dance to her tunes, while most women
try really hard yet struggle.
Bottom line is that you will always struggle with men unless you become emotionally in-tune with
them, if you don’t get this, then you are only spinning your wheels without getting anywhere.
I’ll show you a ridiculously easy way to do it in a moment, but before that let me give you the
second step.
Step 2 – Establish yourself as a valuable asset in his mind.
Why are diamonds so valuable? Is it because they look pretty? Is it because they’re expensive?
The fact is, diamonds are valuable because they’re rare and not easy to acquire. They’re perceived as
something very valuable.
In order to make a guy go almost nuts about you, you need to present yourself as a super valuable
asset, exactly like a diamond.
You need to position yourself in a way, that he would be absolutely scared to lose you and would
even fight to keep you for as long as possible.
You see, something weird gets triggered inside a man when he knows that you’re this valuable asset.
His animalistic instinct awakens and he feels a strong inner drive to protect you, fight for you
and never let you go.
Every guy is a born hunter, they all have a hunter instinct embedded deep within their subconscious
mind and this only awakens when a woman presents herself as this special prize to be won.
During this process, a man can’t help but act on this instinct and will chase you as hard as humanly
possible.
In fact, he will feel absolutely lucky to have you around him and will even value whatever time and
attention he gets from you.
So now you must be wondering, how do I do it? Here is how…
This is very interesting article. I would never have guessed a woman had to be like a diamond and a man would have to feel so much to win her. thanks.
My husband and i sepeated for almost 8months now but we still trying to work out are marriage but sometimes i lost hope. My husband won’t communicate with me, everytime we are together i voice it out how i feel that maybe is time for him to think about are future together because it’s been a long enough for me to wait and sacrifice .He keeps saying he’s not ready yet to live with me and he always get mad at me every time i mentioned it to him are situations. He said he loves me but if he does why he’s not ready to come back and live with me? I’m confused. My husband love living with his daughter and her boyfriend as if he enjoy he’s freedom and space without me. Please help me understand my husband? Since were separated he told me to wait till he changes first and me before getting back together. Help.
Rosie, how much time are you giving him. This is not respectful to you. Tell him your moving on. If he really wants to he’ll come back then. Stop contact for at least 21 days. If he didn’t come back … fly free
Hi Rosie,
Here’s what you need to do, in my opinion. Enjoy your life. Don’t worry about what he is doing. Do things that you enjoy. When you get together with him, don’t talk about how you are feeling because sometimes men just don’t care and it just doesn’t matter to them. Act like you are going to be just fine if the marriage is over. This may trigger him to realize he could lose you and then fight for you. If you look strong it will be appealing. Best wishes!
Being emotionally in tune with your man means you love him back. Thanks for the great article.